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 Nagging anxiety: Romance is far more likely to worry women than men. |
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Women are more than twice as likely as men to have regrets about their romantic life, a university report revealed today. When it comes to admitting to regrets - particularly among women - romance is the most common source of nagging anxiety, the latest research finds. And in the field of romantic relationships, everyone seems to have made decisions they had come to regret, according to Neal Roese, professor of marketing at Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Business in Illinois. Some 370 adults across the United States - ranging in age from 20 to 80 - were asked in a telephone survey to list their biggest regrets, and the most frequently mentioned issue had to do with romance, said Professor Roese. About 44 percent of the women interviewed listed romance, while only 19 percent of the men mentioned it, he said. Many of the romantic regrets were about ‘the one that got away, a missed opportunity or someone you knew in college with whom it didn’t quite work out,’ Prof Roese said. The second-most common regret centered around family issues, such as a desire to have been kinder to a loved one. Others regretted not going to college or not divorcing sooner, or choosing money over a life’s passion. Prof Roese said many of those who took part in the survey were eager to do so, and some even became tearful as they spoke. But saying ‘I wish I would have’ isn’t all bad. ‘Regret is something that can push people into better success in the future,’ Prof Roese explained. ‘It’s a motivator. It’s a benefit if you take a lesson and move on quickly. It’s a problem if you keep [re-living] that same regret over and over again.’ (Read by Renee Haines. Renee Haines is a journalist at the China Daily Website.) (Agencies) |
今日發(fā)布的一份大學(xué)研究報(bào)告稱(chēng)，女性對(duì)感情生活感到遺憾的幾率是男性的兩倍。 最新的研究發(fā)現(xiàn)，在談及遺憾的往事時(shí)，對(duì)愛(ài)情感到遺憾的人最多，尤其是女人，總是受到愛(ài)情的困擾。 西北大學(xué)凱洛格商學(xué)院營(yíng)銷(xiāo)系的尼爾?勒澤教授稱(chēng)，在感情關(guān)系方面，每個(gè)人似乎都曾作出過(guò)讓自己后悔的決定。西北大學(xué)位于美國(guó)的伊利諾伊州。 通過(guò)電話訪談，來(lái)自美國(guó)各地的370位年齡在20歲到80歲之間的成人列出了他們最大的憾事。勒澤教授稱(chēng)，和愛(ài)情有關(guān)的遺憾被提到的次數(shù)最多。 他說(shuō)，接受采訪的女性約有44%對(duì)過(guò)往的愛(ài)情經(jīng)歷表示遺憾，而只有19%的男性這么說(shuō)。 勒澤教授說(shuō)，許多關(guān)于愛(ài)情的遺憾是“心愛(ài)的人離開(kāi)了自己，錯(cuò)失良機(jī)，或是在大學(xué)認(rèn)識(shí)的某個(gè)人，最后沒(méi)能在一起”。 人們的第二大遺憾主要和家庭有關(guān)，例如后悔當(dāng)初沒(méi)有更好地對(duì)待自己所愛(ài)的人。 其他的遺憾有不曾上大學(xué)，或沒(méi)有更早離婚，或是選擇了金錢(qián)而不是自己熱愛(ài)的事業(yè)。 勒澤教授說(shuō)，許多參與調(diào)查的人都很投入，有些人在交談時(shí)甚至留下了眼淚。 不過(guò)，覺(jué)得“如果當(dāng)初那么做就好了”并不全是壞事。 勒澤教授解釋道：“悔恨會(huì)激勵(lì)人們?cè)谖磥?lái)取得更大的成功?！?/p> “懊悔是一種動(dòng)力。如果你吸取了教訓(xùn)，很快又繼續(xù)前進(jìn)，這就是一件好事。如果你總是重蹈覆轍，然后又反復(fù)地為之懊悔，那這就是個(gè)問(wèn)題了?！?/p> 相關(guān)閱讀 （中國(guó)日?qǐng)?bào)網(wǎng)英語(yǔ)點(diǎn)津 陳丹妮 編輯：馮明惠） |
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Vocabulary: nagging: continuing for a long time and difficult to cure or remove（糾纏不休的；難以擺脫的） |
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